What is it about Sardinian People? (2024)

Martina, the author of this article, is a born and bred Sardinian and author of A Deal with a Stranger.

Is there a typical Sardinian person? Can we really generalize and say:people from this place are like this, or like that? Probably not.

Beloware just my experiences of being born and brought up in Sardinia, andwhat I learned while I lived there.

When I look at Sardinians, I certainly observe a difference betweenthe ones who live in large cities (like Cagliari) and the ones who livein small towns.

The small town folk, the ‘nuoresi’ of the inland areas in particular, tend to be wary of strangers and like to mindtheir own business. But if you are introduced to them by another friend,or if somehow they get to know you and they like you, then you becometheir family. They are the most loyal friends you will ever make. They will do anything for you.

Their hospitality is unbeatable. My parents once visited somedistant relatives in Fonni, it was meant to be just a day trip. These relatives insisted they should stay over for a few days, and fedthem the most wonderful food: their own cheese, carta da musica bread,finest olive oil, their own delicious ham, etc.

Over those three days, the head of the family dragged my fatherfrom bar to bar to introduce him to his friends in town, and they wouldall compete on buying him a drink.

My mother, who stayed at the house, was treated like a queen:they served her amaretti and pardulas with coffee at every opportunity,not to mention the generosity of their meals. She felt like she put on afew kilos in 3 days! And this was a family of distant relatives.

But this hospitality is common in other towns and villages ofSardinia too, including my hometown.

When you have a visitor, you mustmake them feel special, treat them really well, they have to feel athome and at the same time totally at ease, without overwhelming themwith too much attention.

Generosity is another common trait in Sardinian people.We had an orchard and my father spent most of his retiring days there.When the fruits of the season were ready to be picked, he would prepare abasket for us and a basket for friends and relatives.

Interestingly, the best looking fruit was given away, and thenot-so-good looking one, even if all the same delicious, was consumed athome.

When my father gave something, it had to be the best, neversecond best. But this wasn’t only my dad; this was common among theother farmers too.

We were often given freshly picked vegetables, saladsand other fruits we didn’t grow. And they looked so perfect, youthought they were unreal.It was an exchange of gifts from the heart.

The kindness of people, especially in most villages and towns, istouching. When my father passed away, we had a procession of peoplecoming to pay respects at our house.

Somehow, at lunchtime or dinnertime, the mourning visitorswould quietly leave, almost as if an internal signal was indicating theyshould do so.We would move to the kitchen and found a delicious meal was waiting for us, lovingly prepared by our close neighbours.

On the day of my father’s funeral, Maria Teresa (next-doorneighbour) had prepared a lovely bowl of Malloreddus alla Salsiccia –maybe it was the care she put into this, maybe it was the wonderfultaste, but I felt so comforted whilst I was eating that pasta. And Iknew that my dad, rest his soul, would’ve loved it too.

This kindness and warmth, I have struggled to find in theSardinian people living in larger cities, especially in Cagliari, thecapital. I guess, like in most big cities, people live in apartmentblocks, they barely know each other, so a sense of community cannotdevelop as well as in small towns.

One trait that most Sardinian people have in common is the lovefor their land. They adore their sea, their mountains, their countrysideand the traditions in generally.

Sadly there are no jobs in Sardinia,so many are compelled to leave and go abroad.I know of many Sardinians, like me, who have left.

It’sinteresting how, nearly all Sardinian people who live away, visitSardinia whenever they possibly can and take all their vacations on theisland.

They don’t choose new destinations to travel to. After all,Sardinia is the perfect holiday place, and if you combine that with thewarmth of your own family, it’s hard to beat it.

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